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What MOM Can REST?!?

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Wait, they are Asleep!! Rest…Wait, Who can REST??….There is Too much to do!!

I have just written a post on “resting in Christ” on my other blog, and thought of motherhood.  How on earth do you rest, let alone “rest in Christ” when you are a busy mother of a toddler, a baby, teenagers?  Not to mention if you have a  job outside your home,  homeschooling duties, ministry opportunities …well you get the picture and I am sure you are asking yourself that question.  

My desire is to give practical advice. Just  STOP!

 Now don’t get too excited.  I did not mean to stop, hop on a plane and head to St. Thomas (although that does sound inviting…hmmmm).  But there are certain things as Moms we just have to do.  We run the household in one way or another.  In this household I taught the boys as soon as they were able to learn how to cook, clean and do their own laundry.  Did it make my life easier?…Well not really, it took some time to teach them… But it did teach  skills that they most certainly have appreciated later in life.

However you choose take care of the household, you are still ultimately responsible.  It is easy to get into that “guilt and condemnation” rut that spews at you…”You never spend time with God, how can you possibly be a good________ (fill in the blank).  Friends, that is not from the Father.  You may not do a personal in depth Bible study daily, but don’t let that stop you from seeking Him everyday!  Never give up!  

I remember that every single day I had on Contemporary Christian music. (You can access http://www.wbvn.org from the internet or google CCM)  I became very consistent in that fact after I caught my eldest at the age of 3 acting out a soap opera that I was just sure he was not paying attention to!  Oh my, that was eye opening!

I tried to always read Bible stories to the kids daily and we believed that spending time on the truth was the most important thing we could do as parents. Although  I didn’t always seem to find the time to personally study or concentrate on God myself, these times with the kids would always minister to me in some way. And “out of the mouths of babes” never became more true!  Some of the discussions we would engage in as they got older will forever be etched in my memory.

Christian Music played a major part in our daily lives as well.   It was either based on scripture, or was scripture.  A three minute song could minister to me as a young mother like nothing else I did. And catching the boys singing a tune without their own awareness spoke volumes!  I could listen while folding laundry or changing a diaper.  They heard it as they played.  Either way I was involved in the spiritual and it affected the climate of our home.  

As I have already said a number of times, my boys are adults.  They actually remember songs that they heard when they were smaller.  I know that scripture has come to their mind many times through a song they sang along with.  As a teacher, I know that many facts can be taught in musical form.  What a better way to teach, and to REST ourselves!

So, take it easy on yourself Mom.  Your heart is in the right place.  There will be a day when they are gone (trust me on this) and you will have all the time in the world.  These seasons of life the Father provides many ways….you just have to be creative in how you access His word daily. 

And when they are down for that nap….take one yourself, or read a verse of scripture…the dishes can wait!!

“Matthew 11:28-30  Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.  Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”

Be blessed dear ones,

IN CHRIST ALONE
Isaiah 55:8-9

Both Sides of the Coin

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Have you ever been on “both sides of the coin?”  

Most of us have been at one time or another.  An employee/employer.  Child/Parent.  That is one of my favorites.  You know, when you get around your parents and they make you feel like a twelve year old again?  Or at my age when you get around your boys and they like to tease and make you feel like a very old woman!!  Mine enjoy that for some strange reason!

At any rate, I have been…in chronological order….a student, a brand new public school teacher, a brand new mom, a homeschooling mom, a mom of public/private school teenagers, and a public school teacher again.  So, as you can see I have been on both sides of the coin.  In fact, I have been on both sides of several coins! Sometimes I was shiny, other times very dull and pretty scratched up!

I believe that the Father can use all the experiences in this life to help others; and most often times He helps us.  As I held all these roles I have learned many things.  The most recent role as a public school special education teacher taught me many lessons.  God allowed all these experiences (plus many others) to make me the teacher and the person I knew He wanted me to be. Of course, I am still a work in progress, trust me!!

Once a parent, I became a better teacher.  That was my personal experience.  I no longer acted like I knew everything there was to know about teaching and parenting.  I realized that when someone was sitting across the table from you discussing your child, you took it personally if something was said that was condescending toward your child in any way.  I met parents in a different manner as a result of this experience.

I became a better teacher when I had children of my own because I finally understood unconditional love.  I will never forget looking into my sons’ eyes….and understanding that I would lay down my life for each of them…anytime, anyway. I felt like I “mothered” my students, and taught them as if they were my very own flesh and blood.

I have watched with horror over the last few years as some of our schools have become targets of senseless shootings.  But I have been filled with complete understanding as I have heard some of these teachers say “they are my kids when they are here at school and I will protect them the best I can.” Every teacher I have worked with has had that same attitude.

 I became a better teacher because I homeschooled my own children.  I was forced to put all I learned into practice about children having different learning styles, how God had indeed created them differently;  that each child had a purpose.  I honestly got to teach as I saw fit for each child.  This helped me see all the special qualities of my students. 

As a student, I can honestly say teachers were my heroes.  My parents divorced when I was in junior high and three teachers took time to talk to me and help me through this difficult time.  I always knew I would be a teacher.  It indeed was my calling.

Yes, I recently quit teaching.  The season changed.  It is not the same world I grew up in…and teachers aren’t given the respect that they once were given.  It is a very difficult job right now.  My hats are off to all of them.  They teach responsibility, respect, safety, morals; not to mention Math, Reading, Science, etc. Trust me when I say that there is not enough time in the day.  Education seems to be blamed for everything right now. I believe there are many reasons, but it is not for this time. Teaching had literally affected my spiritual, emotional, mental and physical health. It was time to be healed.

So maybe being on “both sides of the coin” can make us more compassionate towards others.  Maybe we can treat one another with more respect.  Maybe we can realize that we don’t understand everyone else’s circumstances. Maybe we can ask each other questions without being condescending towards one another. Maybe we can use our experiences to love on people as the Father would have us love on others. Maybe we can encourage one another…whether student, parent, teacher or homeschooling mom!!

Coins can have a shiny appearance, or be very dull and full of scratches.  Which are you?  Oh, how I pray my side can be shiny to all I meet and come in contact with these days!

“A new command I give you.  Love one another. As I have loved you, so must you love one another. By this you will know that you are my disciples, if you love one another.” John 13:34-35

Blessings dear ones…

IN CHRIST ALONE
Isaiah 55:8-9

To a TEACHER MOM….teaching is a calling! What??!!

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photo 1-20photo 2-20Teaching is a calling…private school, public school or homeschool.

I know, I know….if you want a “cush” job, you teach!  Who else has hours of 8-3:40pm, summers off with pay, great retirement pension? If you are a homeschooling mom, you don’t really do anything anyway, do you?

STOP!  Before you start emailing me and throwing things at the screen…I was being extremely sarcastic.

I just resigned from my teaching position in October.  I loved the kids and the people I worked with…but that was about it.  The ridiculous amount of paperwork, rules/laws, standardized tests was killing me.  I was stressed out completely over trying to actually teach, while having to make everyone happy.  I could not do it another day.  So, after much prayer, tears and discussion…I quit.

When I was a little girl, I knew I would be a teacher.  In fact in 8th grade I did a report on being a “Missionary Teacher”.  The poster was out of toothpicks.  Don’t ask, I don’t remember.  ANYWAY, my parents went through a messy divorce, and three of my teachers in the junior high mentored me and helped me.  They listened.  This just reaffirmed my desire to teach.  That is what I was called to do.

And that I did.  I graduated in the summer of 1982 and was blessed with my first teaching job.  And what a job it was.  Junior and Senior High students that were not going to listen to me.  Goodness, four of the boys were just 3 years younger than me!  But I made it and so did the students.  Those learning disabled kids that had always been in trouble and were told they would not graduate…did.  Much to the surprise of the government teacher!!  Sorry, but it was one of those moments!!

I then got pregnant with our first son and I resigned my teaching position to be a mommy.  I loved every single minute of it.  A baby who slept through the night after one week, took naps consistently and loved to go with me everywhere.  He was my little buddy.  Soon he was joined by his brother.  This little guy, however, chose not to sleep longer than four hours through the night, not take naps and cry constantly.   I was worn to a frazzle.  But I tried to be the best mom I could be…reading to them and teaching them as much as possible.  I was a TEACHER MOM!!

Soon these adorable little kiddos became “school age”.  My husband knew I was to homeschool.  I was not convinced.  What would people think of me?  What about socialization?  What if I ruined them for life?  The Lord has His plans and I soon learned that He would guide me over and over.  Isaiah 54:13 is where the Father sent me when I knew I had to be hit in the head to have my answer.  “Both your sons will be taught by the Lord and great will be your children’s peace.”  

Ok, that sounds like an answer to me!! I was called to teach my boys… I was a TEACHER MOM, after all!!

Ten years of homeschooling, and the Father, with His delightful sense of humor…sends me back into the public school system. Long story short…we needed money for college and suffice it to say I was called.  In one day I “just happened” to find out about a part time position, applied for that position, interviewed for the position and picked up my husband from work with employment in that position!  I was still a TEACHER MOM!

So here I am, a teacher who resigned because I knew that season was over.  I think the Lord literally saved me.  I don’t know exactly what He has planned, but I know that teaching is a calling.  You cannot go in thinking any thing else or you won’t make it.  I was blessed to work with some of the most incredible people the last 9 years.  They poured their lives into their teaching.  None left at 3:40, all worked well into the night.  Summers were often spent taking classes, furthering their skills, trying to become better teachers.  Many were moms themselves…raising their children and being TEACHER MOMS!

So, my hat goes off to all teachers and teacher moms.  You are called.  And my prayer is that I can bring a little encouragement into your life right now.  That seems to be my calling now….and I will always and forever be…a TEACHER MOM!

Blessings dear ones,

Isaiah 55:8-9  “For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways,” declares the Lord. As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts.”