He Looks just like his Daddy!!
My husband and I are the proud parents of two adult men. Wow, that is weird evening saying that…it seems like yesterday we were the proud parents of two little boys! They truly do grow up quickly. I cannot stress that enough. I remember people telling me that and I seriously thought I would be crushing cheerios underfoot for the rest of my adult life!
One thing that always made us proud was when someone told us that the boys looked “just like their daddy.” Although I was a “stay at home mom” who cared for those youngsters, on occasion I thought it would be nice if someone said at least one of them looked like me!! My husband was out working sometimes very long hours so I could stay home. Of course I thought I did all the work, so if one of them looked like me I felt like I was at least getting some credit, at least it seemed that way! But loving my Godly husband and realizing this was a compliment, I often let it slide; it was a blessing that they looked just like their Daddy.
As the boys aged, their appearances changed, as well as the development of their own special personalities. The eldest one really favors his father. His mannerisms and voice are very similar to his dad. The youngest one has many of those characteristics as well, although he does favor me just a bit!! I must say that my hazel eyes are no where to be found.
What a picture of God. What a compliment to be told you look like your Father! Jesus spoke to the disciples in John 14:9-11 “Jesus answered, ‘Don’t you know me Phillip, even after I have been among you such a long time? Anyone who has seen me has seen the Father. How can you say ‘Show us the Father?’ Don’t you believe that I am in the Father and the Father is in me? The words I say are not just my own. Rather, it is the Father, living in me, who is doing his work. Believe me when I say that I am in the Father and the Father is in me; or at least believe on the evidence of the miracles themselves.'”
“Seen” in the above verse means that we have “perceived, discerned clearly, to behold. To see with the eyes, to experience.” (Strong’s) Jesus was responding to Phillip’s request in verse 8..“Lord, show us the Father and that will be enough for us.” Gees, I bet Jesus was scratching his head thinking he had been with them all this time and they still didn’t get it! Jesus was in the Father and the Father in Him. All that the disciples had seen should have proven to them who Jesus was, yet they still had a hard time “seeing” the Father. They did not “perceive” who he really was and why he was here on earth. (Of course we aren’t very different, are we?)
He showed characteristics of the Father over and over. He healed, he comforted, he ministered, he taught, he wept, he laughed..he loved unconditionally. Jesus’ life was the life of the Father. While fully man, he was fully GOD. All the attributes that Jesus possessed were a picture of what God was and IS to His children today! Can’t you hear it now…an elderly lady on the road to gather water at the town well passes Jesus as a child. She tousles his hair and comments, “I tell you what Jesus, you look just like your Daddy!” Jesus just smiled in agreement, the truth never being more true!
As parents, we have the honor, privilege and responsibility to “train up the child”. What better teaching than to show them who the Father truly is? We shared many of our life experiences with the kids as we felt we should. Why? To show them how the Father worked in our lives, and even when we weren’t perfect, He always was. His unconditional love is truly that…unconditional.
So I guess we must ask ourselves…do we look like our Daddy? Do our kids? A greater compliment cannot be given…..
Blessings dear ones..
IN CHRIST ALONE
*Strongs, Google clip art*